money

When a woman works hard, a man with money is just a Bonus. I know that love is no substitute for money and i fully understand that love will not put food on the table or get the bills paid. One must admit there is a comfort in being hungry and sad while sitting in a Range Rover  rather than being sad and hungry while walking home or using public transport on a rainy day. Money is good to have all the time and it does make life easier. What some women need to understand is that it is possible to have your cake, eat it too but have paid for it yourself! I know this is a little harsh but it’s true in as much as i love being spoilt and want a man to spoil me rotten everyday money should not be a determining factor on if he stays or not. Money should not nullify everything else, that “if he has money, then we good” mentally is distasteful and not for women with dignity. A man could buy me 150 pairs of shoes and if he did me wrong i would leave him in a heartbeat. If he could buy me the world and still did not treat me like a lady, he can kiss the second date good bye. What i am trying to say is, a man with silos of money should not be cut any slack because he has wealth. If the standard is that he has to call you twice a day, do not cut him slack because he got ‘busy’. If you want your door opened for you, he must do it, yes his shoes are expensive but they are for walking. He can walk around the car to your door. He may be the richest man in the country when he is working but to you he must bow!   Money is nice to have but honestly, it only impresses lazy girls, do not drop your standards for the availability of money. Something’s money cannot buy.